dirty vanilla
Introducing
P A R T I E S
Life’s Too Short for Plain Vanilla. Open Your Eyes and Body to Something New.
Where the mundane Vanilla world fades away, and your wild, curious side comes out to play
PART DANCE PARTY, PART WORKSHOP. NOT A SEX PARTY, BUT DEFINITELY SEX-YYYYY, JUST LIKE YOU!
Dirty Vanilla Parties (DVP) are free members-only gatherings––a perk for being a part of the Slow & Wild Sisterhood. Inspired by the idea of "Dirty Vanilla"—a playful middle ground between boring norms and full-out rebellion—these semi-monthly events are an exclusive opportunity to explore connection, sensuality, and the thrill of learning something new and unexpected.
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With Eros as our
Each DVP is its own unique adventure—blending movement, education, experimentation and a touch of the provocative. From technical lessons on the art of seduction to playful scenes that build your confidence in and out of the bedroom, every gathering offers the chance to awaken your senses, indulge your curiosity, and connect with others who love mixing a little mischief with their magic.
To learn more, read on or check the “Workshops” tab on the Schedule page. To grant yourself entry into these members-only parties, you’ll first need to select the best fitting membership for you.
Parties start in Feb. Get ready for a wild time.
Pasties at the door, anyone?
Structure +
Highlights
When: Semi-monthly, typically Friday nights, 2 hours.
Who: Free and exclusively for Pulse, Rhythm, and Book Dommes members. Guests occasionally allowed, male or female, depending on the theme.
What to Expect:
Feel Good Beats – Sultry and groovy to move that body.
Diverse Themes – We mix it up every time, always exploring different topics related to our 10 Self-Reclamation themes, ensuring a rich and dynamic experience.
Learn Something New – From flogging and twerking to sensual touch and sound baths, every event introduces fresh skills, experiences and ideas.
Playful Exploration – Expect hands-on tutorials, scenes and experiments that invite curiosity, exploration, and self-discovery—all within a safe space that honors and upholds clear boundaries.
Facilitated and Free-Flow Movement – Always anchored in the body, with time to move freely and let go.
Guest Teachers – Frequently featuring experts to lead specialized sessions.
got questions?
We have answers. Explore the FAQs here or reach out via the Webchat feature (bottom right––marked SEND).
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Slow & Wild Studios is where the art of sensual movement meets the wisdom and transformation of Self-Reclamation Coaching. We work with soulful, wholehearted, body-positive women like you to help you cultivate a Self-Reclamation Practice centered on sensual movement and self-care that empowers you to reclaim your agency, wholeness, and joy.
We offer In-Studio Classes and will soon launch Slow & Wild Virtual, a monthly subscription that unlocks an all-access pass to attend our classes virtually (via Zoom) and utilize our ever-growing Video On Demand content library. This archive includes audio, video, and written content that deepens the work we do in class.
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Our address is 1903 Hwy 41 Suite 204, Mount Pleasant, SC 29466.
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We're a Sisterhood of soulful, body-positive women healing and liberating ourselves and each other by stripping away shame and unbinding our hearts, minds, and bodies. Creating a safe, judgment- and competition-free zone is our highest priority.
The women who gravitate here may or may not be dancers or yogis in the traditional sense, but they love to move, fully inhabit their bodies, and embrace their humanity and desire. Big-hearted and brave AF, they choose personal freedom, self-honoring, and being REAL over the relentless expectations of our noisy, hustle-driven society. What’s not to love?
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We’re a private, boutique studio with limited Sensory Mats (the 6-foot round faux fur rugs that we stretch and move on). Some parties will be limited to 8 participants, while others will be 16 or more, depending on the theme and whether or not we’re using the Sensory Mats.
Re: gender of participants, while the Slow & Wild Sisterhood is exclusive to people who identify as women, members are often allowed to bring a guest. Whether their guests should be female or somewhere else on the gender spectrum will depend upon the party’s theme. -
Parties will typically fall on Friday evenings from 7-9PM, roughly once a month.
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We currently have 3 subscriptions to choose from for membership into Slow & Wild: Rhythm (8 class credits/mo.), Pulse (4 class credits/mo.), or Book Dommes (our private book club).
Although all 3 of these subscriptions include entry into DVP, only Rhythm, the higher-tier studio membership grants priority access – 1 week of exclusive booking rights. -
Definitely not sex parties! Just SEX-Y parties! 👯♀️ …like YOU!
We dance our faces and booties off (a mix of guided and free-flow movement) and will always incorporate a hands-on workshop. You can count on it being safe (with clearly defined boundaries), sexy, educational, lighthearted and fun!
Workshop topics can range from polarity play to breathwork and energetics – all designed to increase your confidence and body awareness, give you easier access to your own turn-on, and strip away any shame or other pleasure- and joy-blockers.
Attire will vary based upon theme (from 80’s party, to no make-up, to your favorite Goddess or Feminine Archetype). What matters is that you feel sexy, playful and curious to learn something new as you let your hair down. -
The exact ratio of guided versus freestyle movement that you can expect at each party depends on the theme and how much time we need for the particular workshop. But the focus will always be on embodiment (getting into our bodies and out of our heads).
We’ll typically start and end every party with open dancing. Turn your brain off, your body on, and shake what your mama gave you!
